Article inspired by Brad Browning, author of The Ex-Factor Guide
Discover the Best Thing to Do to Get Your Girlfriend Back After a Breakup
Any man who’s ever been dumped knows how devastating it feels. I should know, I’ve been there! I almost went crazy trying to figure out what caused the relationship to go so wrong. So what’s the best thing to do to get your girlfriend back for keeps, this time?
To begin with, the real reason why your relationship came to an end is that your girlfriend has lost her attraction for you. It isn’t because you left dirty dishes piling up in the kitchen or that it was “her fault, not yours”. It’s because the basis of her attraction for you has faded. And another thing, that’s not her fault – it’s yours.
But how can I get her back? Is it even possible?
There are ways you can “re-attract” your girlfriend but first you have to understand why she dumped you in the first place. That will help you understand how you can get her back.
The 3 Main Reasons Why Men Get Dumped
Now, no-one is saying that you’re guilty of committing all of these relationship mistakes. However, the chances are that you probably displayed at least one of these attributes that more or less compelled your girlfriend to leave you (even though she might have given you another reason for the breakup).
1. The first mortal relationship sin is a fairly common problem that more than half of men experience in their relationships: They are too controlling. Men who put unrealistic limitations on their women end up repelling them.
Although you shouldn’t disregard your rights in a relationship, you have to know when “enough is enough”. If you disregard this, you shouldn’t be surprised when your girlfriend – or even your wife – leaves you.
2. The second relationship-destroying sin is a bit of a strange one but is a huge attraction-killer: always seeking legitimacy from your girlfriend. This means that you constantly seek approval from her. Asking her questions such as, “Does this t-shirt look good on me? Do you still love me? Are you having a good time?”, repel women. They would see it as a sign of insecurity. It’s like telling them that you lack confidence or don’t feel you’re good enough. Women are definitely not attracted to insecure men!
3. The third deadly relationship sin is the “big J” – constant jealousy. Do you become unreasonably suspicious when she speaks to other men? Perhaps she was catching up on news with an old male friend or colleague and you felt a little jealous. Well, if you did display such feelings, then again, it shouldn’t come as a surprise if she lost some attraction for you.
“Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity in a relationship.”
The Re-Attraction Solution
Now that you know how to avoid 3 of the greatest relationship-destroyers, how should you go about re-attracting your girlfriend?
Your first step should be to take advantage of some powerful psychological techniques. Yes, you can get her back, even if the situation seems to be completely hopeless right now. You just have to know what you’re doing.
Have you heard of Brad Browning, also known as “the relationship geek”? With a success rate of over 90%, he has helped thousands of men from all over the world to win back their ex-girlfriends.
Even if you believe your relationship with your girlfriend is totally shredded, Brad can help you find a way to make her fall hopelessly in love with you all over again – or at least give you a second chance.
Don’t push your ex further away!
Now, what many men do after getting dumped is to resort to begging and pleading. They start asking for second chances and begging for forgiveness. Time after time they ask to be given another chance and say “I’m sorry”.
If you are committing one of these mistakes, you need to listen to some good advice. It’s more than likely that you’re doing something right now that ‘s pushing your ex further and further away (and into the arms of another man).
The Path You Should Be Taking
Do yourself a favor and check out this video of Brad’s below. For now, it’s the best thing to do to get your girlfriend back. It the video, he’ll tell you exactly what to do to get her back sooner than you think. He’ll also reveal some other “relationship deadly sins” you might be committing, and how to turn them around. You have nothing to lose by trying!