Article inspired by James Bauer, author of His Secret Obsession
How to Awaken a Man’s Longing to Love You
Every man has deep within his heart an intense longing to be someone’s hero. It’s a longing that has such ancient origins that it’s indelibly written into the fabric of his DNA. There it will lie, dormant, until one day when the correct trigger releases its power. So, how to awaken a man’s longing to love you?
Here you can discover how you, yourself, can become that trigger and arouse the full power of your man’s bonding instinct.
First, however, we must look at the story of human connection.
Know Your Man’s Life Story
Stories create the feeling of one shared life experience. They form the basis of all human connection.
Have you ever watched a crime movie and found yourself championing the criminals as you watch their story unfold? Movies such as “The Italian Job” and “Ocean’s Eleven” are good examples of this. We find the thieves easily likable as we get drawn into the story.
The same applies when we read a fictitious novel. A skilled writer can have us on the edge of our seats, supporting the actions of a villain who doesn’t even exist in real life.
The Power of Story
Even though we know that this is all make-believe, yet it causes a physical reaction in our bodies. How does this happen? The answer, of course, lies in the power of story.
Humans have been communicating important information since ancient times. Our minds are therefore literally wired for story. Stories influence our emotions and allow us to feel connected to each other. They are at the core of communication.
When you reach the end of your life, you know which people you would want by your side. You would want those who have witnessed your life story. The friendly, compassionate nurse may be a wonderful person but, because she is a stranger to you, her positive attributes won’t matter. You will still feel alone because she doesn’t know your story and you don’t know hers.
Being aware of this instinctively, she would quickly make an effort to summon your family and friends, the people who know your story.
Now, to trigger a man’s most profound feelings of attraction, you need to become a special part of his story. But how?
You become a special part of his story by making him aware of your needs and allowing him to help you satisfy them. Why? Because it triggers his hero instinct.
Story + Need = Activated Hero Instinct
A man’s hero instinct drives him to seek a relationship that allows him to assume the role of a provider. That is why a man will fall for a woman who knows how to trigger this attraction trip-wire. It will spark a series of emotional reactions within him. It will make him happy in a way that is difficult for women to understand. This is because they lack his ingrained instinct to become someone’s hero.
Many women have some awareness of a man’s desire to see himself as a provider. For example, they understand why he may become depressed and withdrawn if he lost his job. However, these same women fail to see the power of the opposite effect…
When you make a man feel that he is your hero, you will automatically unleash his desire to commit to something more. He will begin to see you differently. It will be as if your relationship has unlocked a version of himself that he had always longed for.
It will feel “right” to him in a way that he can’t put into words. It’s something that liberates the noble aspects of his masculinity, his protective instincts and – most importantly – his deepest feelings of attraction and love.
If that sounds like something you want to experience in your own life, watch the video below to learn more about this relationship-enhancement tool.
Trigger His “Hero” Instinct
You already have needs and desires. Why not learn how to translate those desires into requests that trigger his hero instinct?
After having watched this video, many women are surprised to discover that a man can actually feel more intensely in love when he feels more intensely needed. That might sound strange, yet it is the reality for men.
We often have a tendency to buy gifts of the kind we would like to receive ourselves. It can be like that with love. We try to love our partner the way we would like to be loved. Therefore, you try to make him feel special, yet he seems unaffected by that. Apparently, he doesn’t speak the same love language that you do, and so you feel helpless.
I would like to tell you about one extraordinary, comprehensive method you can use to capture his attention by activating his hero instinct. There is a technique that works with all men, in every phase of life. It will help him to finally see you as “the one”. Click here to discover it now!
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