Article inspired by Felicity Keith, author of The Language of Desire
Seductive Words to Say to a Man
Is there a man you’re longing to really connect with but you’re afraid you might use the wrong words? Are you holding back because you think you might scare him away? There are certain phrases that spark a specific reaction when a man hears them. They can turn him on both emotionally and physically. To discover what seductive words to say to a man, read on…
Generally, it’s extremely important for a man to know that his sexual expertise is ratified. He needs to be sure that his maleness is inflaming you and that you love what he’s doing. People sometimes imagine the “ideal man” as a type of sex god who can magically captivate and please women. Yes, even the proverbial crazy-scientist geek has fantasies about being that guy!
When he hears you say these phrases, it would feel as if you’ve made his sexual fantasy become real.
3 Phrases to Get Him “In the Mood”
- “You feel so amazing…”
Of course, you can replace the adjective with any other appropriate one: incredible, good, big, hard, awesome, fantastic, huge… For a more specific effect, you can add in a 4-letter word – you get the idea.
When you are being sexually intimate, the ultimate compliment would be to tell him how wonderful he feels to you. This would endorse his physicality and aptitude in real time. Don’t underestimate the importance that men place on their penis!
2. “Right there…”
Any command would do here: “harder, give it to me, don’t stop…” Again, you can always spice it up with some explicit or curse words. Giving him commands during sex to keep him doing exactly what he’s doing to you will make him feel hot and confident. It will let him know just how much you are enjoying it. Having an ardent partner is what men say they love most during sex!
3. “I’m so worked up by you” OR “I can’t get enough of you…”
Phrases like these speak to his ability to arouse you. Would it be an exaggeration to say that he would see you an oversexed hussy who wants his body all the time? Sure, but think about how often women inadvertently turn their partners away because they have a headache, are too tired or simply “not in the mood”.
Now, this doesn’t mean you have to be ready and willing to go at it 24/7. However, you’ll make him feel incredible when you make him aware that he’s able to drive you wild with passion. This is especially so when you say this phrase outside of the bedroom. The idea that his woman is distracted by sexy thoughts of him in the middle of the day is a huge ego boost!